Have you been living your life fixated on the “mistakes” of your past? Maybe you didn’t make the right choice in spouse/partner, major in college, deciding whether to go to college, picking the job / career you’re currently working in day in and out. “If only I had made a better decision then, I would be much better off”. “If Iwas smarter, more intelligent, taller, slimmer, had better teeth, better parents, a better education…. blah, blah, blah.” The list goes on and on! Believe me, I know all about it. I’ve spent a good amount of time spending my “present” based on what happened in my past.
I’m not making light of the many reasons why we fixate on the past. My question to you is, “How is that serving you?” When are you going to realize that what happened is in the past and that the only thing you can change is the future? Stop looking and living through your rear view mirror. Like any good driver, you glance in your rear view mirror to make sure that you can “see” what’s going on back there… but don’t camp out there. You’ve got to keep your eyes on the road (your future).
Now that the car is clean, have you noticed how clear the front windshield is? It seems bigger somehow and clear of obstructions. You’re able to see not only what’s in front of you, but you can see clearly on the sides as well. The rear view mirror is there… but it doesn’t dominate like the front windshield. Now is the time to know and understand what the rear view mirror represents in your life and how absolutely critical it is to keep your focus forward and not backwards. Look forward and be excited for the potential of a clear and bright future. Plan to clean your car often, committing to not only washing the car yourself but taking it to an expert for those tune ups, wash and wax services. It will do you (and your car) a world of good!
What will you do differently today?
Do you dare come in for a tune up OR a package deal to keep your life moving forward? If now is the time to change the course of your thoughts and your life, call me at 1.877.804.4148!
In the spirit of peace and love.
Tamarra – The Dare2DoItNow Coach